Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Ladies Act Like A Lady

We often cry out for change at all levels of our existence. In our personal relationships with a mate, children, family, our workplaces, government, and society at large. Often, however, we resist the responsibility that comes with change. Whether it be through lack of preparation, maturity, or sincerity, this is very often a struggle with humans. Our society is experiencing a paradigm shift. Women are finally being respected more as equal now. Women are in construction, military combat, boxing, are CEOs, Senators, and heads of state. Positions previously restricted to men. Women in greater numbers are the breadwinners, are everything from Mayors, Governors, Judges, and lawmakers at every level of government. We still have some more ground to cover, but society has gotten the message, as more and more vestiges of inequality are being addressed. This equality, as with anything else, carries responsibility with it.

As we continue to vehemently oppose and correct any type of abuse against our women, we must also hold women accountable for abuse against men. Feminists and media pundits who persistently try to justify women on men abuse, are promoting a double standard, are hypocritical, and are part of the problem, not the solution. They should be expending that same energy on encouraging women to be ladies, and not assault their mates, the same way manhood mentors teach men to be gentlemen, and to not assault their mates. As part of this paradigm shift, society is heading fast toward intolerance of women getting a pass on women on men violence. Women must embrace this worthy change in societal attitudes, and start keeping their hands to themselves. It is also important for women, as well as men, to teach their daughters to do the same. Stand up and be a true Lady, a real woman that is not abusive, that doesn't take advantage of her woman status in assaulting men without punity.

If anyone, male or female, strikes another person, whether they be male or female, should expect to be stricken back.Everyone has a right to not be assaulted, both male and female, and has a right to meet force with force to eliminate violence against their person, whether the perpetrator is male or female.
Embrace the paradigm shift. Embrace change. Embrace the responsibility that comes with change.
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Saturday, September 19, 2015

Moving Forward

Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase. Just take the first step.-Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
Oftentimes, it is difficult to launch a new business, venture or project, or even follow a whole new path in life when we don’t have significant details of what its future holds. 
Life overall is the same way.
We came into life not having a clue to its prospects of success, or even what it holds. Natural life progression hold the clues to life ambitions and expansions. As we move into different levels of puberty and maturity, we experience feelings of uncertainty, the need for greater territory or space, and the tendency to increase exploration…and we move forward into those new realms of uncertainty. As babies, we  eventually seek to climb out of the crib or playpen. In adolescence and as teenagers, we push for longer curfews, more space to venture into via friends houses, outings, etc.
Even in adulthood, we as humans, continue to face natural pressure to continually progress. A larger apartment, a house, better vehicle, better job, promotions, more schooling, advancing in our relationship.
Progression is a natural mandate of life.

We must utilize the natural tools given to us to move forward. We are faith creatures. We entered into every level of maturity starting from infanthood, with the tools of exploration, feelings of uncertainty, and the need to increase space or territory, inherently knowing that we belong on another level.
I encourage you to continue the natural course of expansion until you have arrived at your destiny, the location that was placed into your inner dreams. It is the place that awaits you at the end of a road paved with feelings of uncertainty, the tools of exploration, with the gravitational pull of the need to increase your space or territory.

May you continue to operate in the God-supplied faith to progress into newer territories, complete with feelings of uncertainty, mixed with a hunger to explore, and the need for increase, to arrive at your destiny. Just take the child-like first step and then keep walking.
#YouCanDoThis #MovingForward

That ye be not slothful, but followers of them who through faith and patience, inherit the promises-Hebrews 6:12